Most often when we refer to a treat, our mind immediately goes to food particularly something that may be sweet or decadent (like my homemade dairy-free chocolate & nut covered oatmeal cups). But a treat is also an event or something that gives us pleasure. My daily walks are often a treat. Since I’m a lifelong observer, I notice the little details like a hidden ‘welcome’ stone in a parking lot or fresh moss on the curb along the waterfront. And, of course, aren’t we all enthralled by a vibrant fiery sunset?
Because I always have Heidi with me on those walks, another treat is when neighbours or strangers stop to chat. It’s true that when a person has a dog, it’s a great conversation starter.
Speaking of treats, we used to allow people we’d meet on our walks to give Heidi a treat or two. But we eventually had to put a stop to that. She was becoming a nuisance in that she became conditioned to expecting a treat from every single person who approached. Since we are responsible dog guardians, we realize not everyone likes dogs and some even fear dogs. Those people would not appreciate a strange dog coming up and approaching them or getting into their space. To avoid hurting people’s feelings when they ask if they may give her a goodie, we simply say she has food sensitivities and that she would prefer if you give her a gentle rub under her chin. We also do not allow every single person we encounter to touch her. Notice we direct people away from reaching for or touching her head. Dogs don’t appreciate having their head touched — just as we wouldn’t especially from a stranger! It’s also frightening for some dogs to have a stranger reaching down for their head. Heidi isn’t an in-your-face crazy-friendly type of dog so she is pretty aloof with strangers — it’s her people who she trusts and whose affection she desires. Many dogs are that way so it pays to know a dog’s personality and tendencies.
Now if you were to offer ME a treat — well, I’d love to oblige.
Heidi certainly seemed to enjoy being rubbed under her chin when I was there — especially when we were just sitting and relaxing in the living room during the evenings. She is such a sweet, gentle girl. Also, I LOVE the photos you’ve posted here. You always manage to find such an interesting and unique perspective on things, and I find that very inspiring.
I’m never sure where to touch a strange dog, even if it’s wagging its tail and seems to want a pat. So I tend to touch it under its chin rather than on top of its head. So far so good. -Kate